Communicating with efficiency & integrity
21/09/23
In this video we dive deeply into the topic of communication. We start with our experiences around transitioning from a smartphone to a simple ‘dumb’ phone (Nicole) and living without a phone altogether (Carina). From that emerges the question of what it means to connect with others and with ourselves, and how the two belong together. How can communication flow easily and well, informed by nature’s integrity and intelligence?
We also touch on some typical societal programs and judgments related to lifestyle esp. the role of silence – quiet time – time for ourselves, and the expectation of consistency in our work life. Based on our personal community work experiences we illustrate how different people have different paths in these times of transformation and point to the importance of granting each other the room needed to navigate smoothly and work efficiently.
Worldwide change has sped up exponentially. Efficiency and true connectedness to ourselves and our communities have become more important than ever. For that it is paramount to live from our whole being which, as we explain, is an entirely different way of operating than mental analysis. We grow together and quickly build a new, more just and enjoyable world by deeply connecting, truly listening and a one-pointed focus when we meet others.
What we are sharing here is a rich and nuanced 35min conversation, and I am very happy that Nicole has reached out and initiated this collaboration. Most likely we will add to this conversation with additional videos over the coming months.
Fast-pace change, turmoil, uncertainty
15/10/23
Nicole and I had a fantastic conversation about letting go of financial collaborations which no longer feel in alignment, dealing with relationship and friendship in tumultuous times, and following internal promptings at an ever deeper level – out of the head and into the body.
Why are so many relationships falling apart? Different levels of embodiment, non-matching paths in these times of transformation – we talked about letting go of gender roles and societal expectations, explored the meaning of equity of men and women, and dove deeper into the importance of clear communication, picking up on our first conversation 2 months ago. We uncovered the magic of nature’s workings when things are aligned, the importance to stop hiding inside and out, and the meaning of courage.
Intuition, instructions, embodiment, internal promptings
You will hear us use the words ‘intuition’, ‘instructions’ and ‘internal promptings’ in an interchangeable way as we recognise that different terms are used in different circles and communities. All three terms are brought back to an embodiment of nature – the underlying intelligence of this universe – the very foundation of physics, biology, the materialisation of form. There is a constant stream of information which arises from silence rather than mental activity, and which we are always connected to. Hearing that stream and acting based on it is embodiment, true intuition; it is the meaning of following our instructions as we all have different and yet very specific contributions to make in these times.
Last video of the series
This will likely be the last video of our conversation series, during the process of which I travelled 3 different countries. When we recorded the first video I was in Ireland, then in France and now I am in Spain. Funny how that unfolded. Different topics linked to different places and yet at the same time relevant everywhere. I love the play of Nature. We hope you enjoyed these videos.
Links
Nicole’s website (in Dutch) – www.nicolegaillard.nl
Our first conversation – Communicating with efficiency and integrity
Money guide – Visit guide
Being in relationship in times of fast-pace change
17/11/23
Nicole and I had a fantastic conversation about letting go of financial collaborations which no longer feel in alignment, dealing with relationship and friendship in tumultuous times, and following internal promptings at an ever deeper level – out of the head and into the body.
Why are so many relationships falling apart? Different levels of embodiment, non-matching paths in these times of transformation – we talked about letting go of gender roles and societal expectations, explored the meaning of equity of men and women, and dove deeper into the importance of clear communication, picking up on our first conversation 2 months ago. We uncovered the magic of nature’s workings when things are aligned, the importance to stop hiding inside and out, and the meaning of courage.
Intuition, instructions, embodiment, internal promptings
You will hear us use the words ‘intuition’, ‘instructions’ and ‘internal promptings’ in an interchangeable way as we recognise that different terms are used in different circles and communities. All three terms are brought back to an embodiment of nature – the underlying intelligence of this universe – the very foundation of physics, biology, the materialisation of form. There is a constant stream of information which arises from silence rather than mental activity, and which we are always connected to. Hearing that stream and acting based on it is embodiment, true intuition; it is the meaning of following our instructions as we all have different and yet very specific contributions to make in these times.
Last video of the series
This will likely be the last video of our conversation series, during the process of which I travelled 3 different countries. When we recorded the first video I was in Ireland, then in France and now I am in Spain. Funny how that unfolded. Different topics linked to different places and yet at the same time relevant everywhere. I love the play of Nature. We hope you enjoyed these videos.
Nicole has now also an English blog which you can find here: www.warmlynicole.org.
If you like to go deeper
Check out the blog post ‘Radically being oneself’ to read about the current worldwide transformation and what it means to be human. You will find deeper insights into the meaning of Nature, embodiment and the changes needed in our societies, communities and families.
If you like to find out more about the team behind this website, and about my friend Pigi, take a look at our blog post and video about the time Kate (the designer of this website), Pigi and myself just spent together in the Spanish Pyrenees where Kate lives with her partner.
A poem for you
I wrote this poem 2 days ago in the small town of Aitona, Catalonia (Spain), and feel that it goes well with this conversation.
The power in you
What do you need to see your shadow disappear?
Workshops, retreats, ayahuasca, sex, or beer?
Or simply the recognition of what is holding you dear?
Why so many decisions rooted in fear?
When flames of power shoot out of every tear?
Why are you waiting year after year
When an explosion of light is already here?
A single split second stunned by life
Contains it all – no need to strive.
Our words turn into the blade of a knife.
Your smile – a radiating, glowing hive.
Trauma release, clocking frequencies, balancing online & offline work
15/01/24
As both of us are getting ready for travel (or rather more travel on my end) we discussed transition periods, how we choose whether to move, or stay put, and where and when to go. This is a topic we will very likely take deeper in an additional conversation. Lastly we dipped into what science is and isn’t, and how clocking frequencies and sensing authenticity, or the lack thereof are most important in our decision-making.
There was so much joy in re-connecting with Nicole in this new year. I think neither one of us expected to record another conversation so soon. We both strongly felt drawn to it though and feel so much mutual nourishment in our bond. We hope you enjoy our meeting.
